Widowhood is not a curse nor is it by choice. Everything I planned did not go as planned but I had to learn to walk into the unplanned to get a plan. Life sure presents us with so many work plans whenever our planned plan fails. The problem is the diligence to move out of the planned and move in to the unplanned and explore all of it. It is getting the desire out of the previous to the obvious that is present gives “the plan”.